Trusting in Jesus
One of my student's is going through her mom's second divorce. The first one happened when my student was 5 and a half. I gave my student's some time to spend praying and filling out a worksheet I had made about being a Christian. It's a little hard to explain without you actually seeing it. I'm not fond of your typical worksheet, but this one worked out okay with the kids. After sharing the gospel with my kids and giving a few more instructions, I passed out the work sheet and deemed it quiet time.
Anyway, the first question was "Do I trust in Jesus Christ as my Lord and Savior? Yes or No." I tried to make it very clear that I wouldn't dislike my student's who answered "No" to anything on the worksheet. That I wanted them to be honest and I wanted to use their answers in order to pray for them, encourage them, and talk with them. My student who is going through her mom's divorce answered "No" to many of the questions. I'm glad she was honest with me. Here are her comments that she left me on the back. I hope you don't think me breaking her confidence, since she doesn't read this and you don't know her. Plus I would welcome the prayers for her and for me as I minister to her.
Here it is:
"I don't trust in Jesus because my mom is always pushing me, and making me. It's not very trusting if you are forced to. I have gone through hardships my whole life. It's hard to trust when you are alone and no one listens to you. "
She mentioned that she could write more, but ran out of room. It just broke my heart to read that. It broke it even more to know that she doesn't understand how Jesus understands her suffering, how God is our comforter, refuge, and strength, and how much healing he could bring her. I know I haven't been through half of what she has been through, but aren't those things true?
Please pray for me, and feel free to offer your advice on how I can share the gospel with her in a way that ministers to her. I've never been through divorce and don't understand what she needs to hear. I know that the Holy Spirit can work through me and in her heart, but I want to be wise in seeking advice from my brothers and sisters who understand her hurt.